Rachel Catena
October 1 2014
Writing Skills Workshop
Essay 2
Think back to eighth grade, what did you do on your friday and saturday nights? For me, it was the usual friday night at Aspen Ice, an ice skating rink and game room where they had a dj play music and a concession stand with the cheesiest of cheese fries and the greasiest of pizza. Saturday nights, however, consisted of my parents dropping me off at Applebees with three of my best girlfriends to spend my parents’ money on spinach and artichoke dip and the infamous Triple Chocolate Meltdown. After leaving a ridiculous tip consisting of wrinkled ones, nickels, and pennies we would walk across the street to the Flemington Movie Theater where almost everyone experienced their first kiss. We would never tell our parents but here is where we would meet boys, sit in the back of the theatre, laugh obnoxiously, and exchange numbers on our flip phones as a movie we weren’t even interested in seeing was projecting on the screen. These places where I spent my weekends are what kept me out of trouble at a young age. In recent years, Flemington, my home town, has knocked down the movie theater and Aspen Ice no longer runs fun-skate friday nights. Without places to hangout on the weekends, teenagers will resort to basements where they can only play so many video games before breaking into the liquor cabinets or potentially worse, the medicine cabinet. Curious teenagers can get into a lot of trouble if they are stuck at home with nothing to do. My hometown needs to step up their game and stop replacing the kid friendly establishments with banks and CVSes.


Unless you were around to experience the good times and memories made at the Flemington Movie Theater and at Aspen Ice, you will never fully understand why they meant so much to people like myself. In Valerie Kinloch’s essay, “Harlem, Art, and Literacy and Documenting ‘Harlem is Art, Harlem as Art,’” the author tells us about Harlem and how people from that town feel. Kinloch quotes a member from the Harlem community by the name of Phillip, he states, “They don’t know ‘bout the rhythm that’s our madness” (Kinloch 148). This reminds me of my town, Flemington, in the middle of the third richest county in America. From the outside, it looks like we have it all and many would say that we have nothing to complain about but being born and raised in this town for eighteen years, I know our madness. I have grown to love our madness that is Flemington but when the town begins to take away all that makes up our madness is what drives me crazy.
The old run down movie theater, Aspen Ice, these places made up Flemington’s madness. My weekends were consumed by these places. My memories were held tight by these places and the children of the community have grown and learned from these places. Now, flemington is consistently talked about how there is nothing to do there. Teens are constantly walking around late at night, going to parties, and hanging out at Wawa. Wawa is the only place in the whole town that is open 24/7. At any hour of the night you can find people hanging out in the bed of their parked trucks in the parking lot of Wawa. Teens are also drinking at a younger age and doing harder drugs. In the recent years, heroin has been a problem in my town. Counselors have informed families in the area that the fatal drug has been introduced to the middle school. At that age the only thing I was addicted to was cheese fries. At that age I also had options of places to hangout with my friends on the weekends.

Flemington may not have a lot going on anymore but it is the place that I will always hold to my heart. I love my town and I wish teens in my area could experience weekends like I had when I was younger instead of getting involved with illegal substances. Khaleeq, a member from the Harlem community, mentioned in Kinloch’s essay, believes that “people shouldn’t be talking ‘bout places like Harlem like it’s some bad dangerous area or something” (Kinloch 149). Khaleeq is defending his area where he grew up because he feels as though people don’t know Harlem the way he does. As for my town, I believe people shouldn't be talking ‘bout places like Flemington like there is nothing to do there. They don’t know my town the same way I once knew it.
Flemington consists of farms, a Wawa, and a million banks and convenience stores. The people in my town look forward to our once a year events such as the famous annual Balloon Festival and the Hunterdon County 4H Fair. The Balloon Festival is this huge festival in July where they set off hundreds of hot air balloons. The 4H fair is a county fair in August with games, farm animals, rides, and fair food. Both of these events happen in the summertime and only happen once every year. As for the other months, there isn’ t much going on around Flemington. Recently, the idea was proposed to the town that they hold more events weekly. We already have antique classic car shows in town but those tend to draw an older crowd. The idea that was proposed was to have a weekly music and arts night. On these nights, Flemington Main Street will be littered with local musicians and artists to showcase their talents. The restaurants also located on Main Street will participate in these nights as well by offering outside concession stands. This idea is perfect for the reason that kids can still roam around the streets of the town if they want or they can participate and show their own special talents to their peers. This is draw in a crowd because the performers friends will come to support their friends and hangout. It will also help local business because the kids will spend their money at the stores while they enjoy music and art.

All in all, Flemington is not this drab place with nothing to do. Just as Khaleeq and Phillip feel as though Harlem shouldn’t be judged, I feel as though Flemington has great potential to be the way it was a few years back. It is the place that I call home and the place where I grew up. My experiences in this town have shaped me to become who I am today. I am beyond excited to see where this proposal of Flemington music and arts nights is going. I’m sure the teenagers in my town will take advantage of these fun nights in Flemington so they don’t have to spend their time sitting around in each other's basements with nothing to do. The teenagers of my town may not have the fun-skate nights and movie nights like I had but now it’s up to them to make the music and art nights a memorable experience to look back on.